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Esther Perel TED Talks
Rethinking infidelity ... a talk for anyone who has ever loved
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Rethinking infidelity ... a talk for anyone who has ever loved
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Affairs are the ultimate betrayal of trust — but according to relationship therapist Esther Perel, they’re more complicated than you might think. Here’s what drives infidelity and how to move forward from it: http://t.ted.com/jyR0Rqn | TED
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Affairs are the ultimate betrayal of trust — but according to relationship therapist Esther Perel, they’re more complicated than you might think. Here’s what drives infidelity and how to move forward from it: http://t.ted.com/jyR0Rqn | TED
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The secret to desire in a long-term relationship
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The secret to desire in a long-term relationship
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Sessions Live is happening May 15 and 16. This years theme is desire and its disruptions. You can join in person in NYC or virtually. Therapists and clinicians: 8 CE credits and 90 day on demand access!
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Discover how to cultivate true connection at Sessions Live 2025 with Esther Perel, now open for registration. | Esther Perel
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Meet us in Brooklyn NY for two days of hands-on learning at Sessions Live 2025. The future of connection starts here. | Esther Perel
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Esther Perel Podcasts
Am I being gaslit by my partner or am I being oversensitive? The question itself reveals so much. If you are constantly questioning and doubting yourself, then you know something's not right. Hear more about this episode on gaslighting and other episodes on my podcast Where Should We Begin?, which has now returned with a new season under The Vox Media Podcast Network. Tune in on Apple Podcasts and subscribe today. | Esther Perel
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Am I being gaslit by my partner or am I being oversensitive? The question itself reveals so much. If you are constantly questioning and doubting yourself, then you know something's not right. Hear more about this episode on gaslighting and other episodes on my podcast Where Should We Begin?, which has now returned with a new season under The Vox Media Podcast Network. Tune in on Apple Podcasts and subscribe today. | Esther Perel
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Earlier this month, I sat down with Dan Harris on the Ten Percent Happier podcast to talk about the "One Thing That Will Improve the Quality of Your Life." Listen to the full episode through the link below. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/esther-perel-on-the-one-thing-that-will-improve/id1087147821?i=1000639230558 | Esther Perel
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Earlier this month, I sat down with Dan Harris on the Ten Percent Happier podcast to talk about the "One Thing That Will Improve the Quality of Your Life." Listen to the full episode through the link below. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/esther-perel-on-the-one-thing-that-will-improve/id1087147821?i=1000639230558 | Esther Perel
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Season 2 of Where Should We Begin has come to Apple Podcasts! In Episode 1, we meet a couple who came to me not because of a challenge they faced in their relationship, but rather within their family ecosystem. Step into my office with a new episode every Friday, available on Apple Podcasts. Tap *subscribe* to get notified when a new episode becomes available. https://apple.co/2rAByer #WhereShouldWeBegin | Esther Perel
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Season 2 of Where Should We Begin has come to Apple Podcasts! In Episode 1, we meet a couple who came to me not because of a challenge they faced in their relationship, but rather within their family ecosystem. Step into my office with a new episode every Friday, available on Apple Podcasts. Tap *subscribe* to get notified when a new episode becomes available. https://apple.co/2rAByer #WhereShouldWeBegin | Esther Perel
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Sessions Live is happening May 15 and 16. This years theme is desire and its disruptions. You can join in person in NYC or virtually. Therapists and clinicians: 8 CE credits and 90 day on demand access!
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Meet us in Brooklyn NY for two days of hands-on learning at Sessions Live 2025. The future of connection starts here. | Esther Perel
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Calling all therapists, counselors, clinicians and mental health professionals: get 10% off your ticket for Sessions Live 2022 using code SOCIAL10. Step inside my virtual office as my colleagues and I demonstrate two real couples therapy sessions, lending unique expertise and critiques to cast a new lens on each session. The live demonstration and collaborative, multidisciplinary supervision will allow you to expand your own abilities and try new things in your office. Reserve your ticket for th
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Calling all therapists, counselors, clinicians and mental health professionals: get 10% off your ticket for Sessions Live 2022 using code SOCIAL10. Step inside my virtual office as my colleagues and I demonstrate two real couples therapy sessions, lending unique expertise and critiques to cast a new lens on each session. The live demonstration and collaborative, multidisciplinary supervision will allow you to expand your own abilities and try new things in your office. Reserve your ticket for th
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Every relationship straddles freedom and connection — and we all need both in order to maintain a balance of both sovereignty and intimacy. By accepting and even celebrating that dance, we’re able to tolerate the moments when we crave more connection or more independence than our partner, knowing that it is an inherent quality of relating. Which do you most often favor? And do you find that it shifts based on the relationship or the season? Listen to the full episode of The School of Greatness w
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Every relationship straddles freedom and connection — and we all need both in order to maintain a balance of both sovereignty and intimacy. By accepting and even celebrating that dance, we’re able to tolerate the moments when we crave more connection or more independence than our partner, knowing that it is an inherent quality of relating. Which do you most often favor? And do you find that it shifts based on the relationship or the season? Listen to the full episode of The School of Greatness w
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We all live in ongoing networks of relationships—at work, at home, in our extracurriculars, and elsewhere—and we have the power to shape them any way we want. On MasterClass, I’m going to teach you how to take a fresh look at your relationships with others and give you the tools you need to set boundaries, improve communication, build trust, and form deeper, more meaningful connections with everyone in your life. www.masterclass.com/estherperel | Esther Perel
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We all live in ongoing networks of relationships—at work, at home, in our extracurriculars, and elsewhere—and we have the power to shape them any way we want. On MasterClass, I’m going to teach you how to take a fresh look at your relationships with others and give you the tools you need to set boundaries, improve communication, build trust, and form deeper, more meaningful connections with everyone in your life. www.masterclass.com/estherperel | Esther Perel
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In the past two years, I've traveled to Australia, New Zealand, and London, where I've had the privilege of taking the stage in front of many of you. Together, we delved into the future of relationships — how we connect, desire, and even how we love. What began as a siloed exploration inside the four walls of my therapy office has evolved into a truly interactive experience, a collaboration with both my audience and community. To mark a new chapter in our collective exploration of the dynamics t
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In the past two years, I've traveled to Australia, New Zealand, and London, where I've had the privilege of taking the stage in front of many of you. Together, we delved into the future of relationships — how we connect, desire, and even how we love. What began as a siloed exploration inside the four walls of my therapy office has evolved into a truly interactive experience, a collaboration with both my audience and community. To mark a new chapter in our collective exploration of the dynamics t
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✨ Imagine one conversation, one session, that changes how you view the moment we're collectively experiencing. Sessions Live 2025: Mating in the MetaCrisis starts this week—and it's not too late to join. 🎟️ Your virtual ticket gets you: ✅ Two days of powerful talks workshops ✅ Access to 90 days of on-demand replays ✅ An exclusive LIVE webinar with Esther Perel tomorrow, Tuesday, April 22—only for virtual attendees This isn’t just a livestream. It’s your seat at the table with 20 leading voices
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Talking about sex can be difficult, particularly during these trying times. However, it's incredibly important to be able to have open discussions about this forbidden topic. Join me and other experts at Sessions Live 2020, a three-part virtual conference on November 7, 14 and 21. | Esther Perel
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Therapists, coaches, and educators, join me this November for Sessions Live 2020: Forbidden Conversations. As relationship professionals, a lot of what we do involves asking the questions others wouldn't dare to ask. We lead people in difficult conversations that would otherwise be off-limits. But it can be a challenge to not let our own inherited taboos get in the way. This November, join me for a digital multidisciplinary training event that will help you address these Forbidden Conversations
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“There is laughter in hell.” Today I join Nayeema Raza and Kara Swisher to discuss the loss of their friend and colleague Blakeney Schick and how we live through grief. Listen to our full conversation through the link below. https://bit.ly/3fH7GYK | Esther Perel
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Join me for Forbidden Conversations, a three-part virtual conference on November 7, 14 and 21 where we'll explore the concept of taboos. With your conference pass, you'll receive 2 hours of live training over three Saturdays, Q&A sessions, supplemental resources, and on-demand video content. Purchase your ticket at a special price of $75 today. | Esther Perel
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How do we help our clients cultivate a feeling of vitality? Therapists and clinicians, join us on livestream November 9th for my annual Sessions Live conference. This year’s topic is Finding Eros: A multidisciplinary approach to love, lust, and commitment. Eros, also known as eroticism, is a quality of aliveness, vibrancy and vitality that is critical to both life and the clinical relationship. It’s a sense of creativity, agency and pleasure that we often aim for in our clients but neglect withi
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What is the best way to end your first therapy session with new clients? Discover resources like this and more in my online salon for therapists, coaches, educators and more. | Esther Perel
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Sessions is an online educational salon for therapists, educators, coaches and anyone working in the field of relationships. Sign up for a trial subscription today. | Esther Perel
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I’m curious: Had you figured out this connection? And more importantly, will you join me for Sessions Live later this month? Click below to register - and gain access to all content to learn on demand for 90 days after the event! | Esther Perel
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When it comes to relationships, creating rituals is all about highlighting the specialness of your bond and continuously affirming it—and not just on your anniversary. This clip is from last week's live workshop. For more on this topic, including a full replay of the workshop, visit estherperel.com/blog/letters-from-esther-19-rituals-and-routines. | Esther Perel
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Long-term love doesn’t have to mean less desire. This course with Esther Perel helps couples rediscover attraction, play, and erotic connection—no travel, no group sessions. Do it together, at your own pace. | Esther Perel
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What are some of your favorite questions to start a session? My online salon features interviews and resources I've gathered from my teachers, mentors and peers. Sign up for a free, 2 week trial of Sessions today. | Esther Perel
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“You are the worker and you are the parent and you are the teacher and you are the partner, and you are the lover… that in itself is exhausting.” Esther Perel on what COVID-19 is doing to relationships. | The Daily Show
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In this week's classic session of the podcast, a husband and wife are united in their desire to help their daughter, two years after she suffered a breakdown and moved home, shutting herself off from her family and friends. Have you listened? Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://youtu.be/0f8MAtuJdPU?si=0aYrZLm4wzVJRfqX or subscribe on Substack for exclusive bonus content. | Esther Perel
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Have you gotten your ticket for Sessions Live, my annual clinical conference happening May 15 & 16? Join me live in NYC or anywhere in the world with a virtual ticket. Our theme: Desire and Its Disruptions. Our goal: Gather leading experts to share tools that will support our work and lives. 90 day on demand access after the event. Clinicians: 8 CE credits. Buy your ticket: https://bit.ly/48Mofvh | Esther Perel
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We are just two days away from our Sessions Live virtual conference, and today is the last day to reserve your ticket. On Saturday, November 5th, you will step inside my office as a brilliant lineup of colleagues demonstrate the value of supervision and critique my work. It will be a completely unique experience as I open up a video session and a live critique for the first time. I’m feeling excited and full of anticipation as I bring this edgy new format to my work and community, and I look for
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Sessions Live 2025: Mating in the Metacrisis kicks off TOMORROW. Join us virtually for two days of training, deep conversation, insight, and connection in a world on edge. If you’ve been thinking about it, this is your moment. 💻 Join from anywhere. 📺 Watch live or on your own time. ⏳ Replays available for 90 days. If you care about relationships—at home, at work, in therapy, or in culture—this experience is for you. Let’s explore eroticism, polarization, and connection together. 🎟️ https://ww
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Psychotherapist and author Esther Perel tackles infidelity and why the conversation requires more care and compassion #TDSThrowback | The Daily Show
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Join me on November 4th for my annual training conference, Sessions Live, where we'll dive into the heart of conflict and restlessness in modern love. We'll explore the big questions:“Should I stay or should I go?” “How did we get here?”“Why do we get stuck in the same fight over and over?” “Will this ever get better?” Building on the success of last year’s innovative format, I’ve invited some of my most trusted colleagues to give me live feedback of my work and discuss what they may have done d
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Tell me how you were loved, and I’ll tell you how you make love. How were you loved? Share your stories with me and each other in the comments below. To order Mating in Captivity, I invite you to follow the link below. https://bit.ly/3xFsbM2 | Esther Perel
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This week as we explore vulnerability, I'm called back to last month's Valentine's Day workshop and accompanying exercise to write a letter to loved ones using a series of prompts. In that moment and over the years, many of you have asked me how to encourage your partners to be more vulnerable, but what we sometimes miss is that inviting vulnerability often starts with being vulnerable ourselves. If we want to allow deep intimate bonds to live and breathe in our relationships—we have to take on
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On this week's episode of Where Should We Begin?, a woman is grappling with the aftermath of a tumultuous relationship with a narcissistic partner. First, he love bombed her and made her feel special--only to turn manipulative and aggressive in a time of need following her father's death. She doesn't know how to bounce back or how she will learn to trust again, which we discuss in this latest episode of the podcast. Have you ever been "love bombed"? Enjoy the full podcast on YouTube now: https:/
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