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Lexa takes a Chair flight . . Going anywhere with this human is just plain fun. We laugh hundreds of times a day. Her laugh is infectious, she loves to commit to a silly bit, she is fast to laugh and will always say something funny right when you take a drink(getting something spit out or through the nose is a serious win at our house). She’s perfect and I am just so glad she likes me too! Thanks for being with us along this zany journey of life and “social” communication. Be kind to yourself. S

Lexa takes a Chair flight . . Going anywhere with this human is just plain fun. We laugh hundreds of times a day. Her laugh is infectious, she loves to commit to a silly bit, she is fast to laugh and will always say something funny right when you take a drink(getting something spit out or through the nose is a serious win at our house). She’s perfect and I am just so glad she likes me too! Thanks for being with us along this zany journey of life and “social” communication. Be kind to yourself. S

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Lexa is so excited to be growing food. She has tried before and learned a lot, so this time in an area she can see more often. I think she “needs” to nurture things and people. Find a person that feels this compulsion and you will always feel at home. Do you grow food at home. Share tips, share tricks! #fyp #marriedlife #funny | Lexa Finley

Lexa is so excited to be growing food. She has tried before and learned a lot, so this time in an area she can see more often. I think she “needs” to nurture things and people. Find a person that feels this compulsion and you will always feel at home. Do you grow food at home. Share tips, share tricks! #fyp #marriedlife #funny | Lexa Finley

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Lexa is independent and rarely asks for help. Learning to let her be herself and wait till she asks for help has been challenging but doable! Are you independent? Do you ask for help? #fyp #marriedlife #artist | Lexa Finley

Lexa is independent and rarely asks for help. Learning to let her be herself and wait till she asks for help has been challenging but doable! Are you independent? Do you ask for help? #fyp #marriedlife #artist | Lexa Finley

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Lexa being Lexa at Lowe’s. #marriedlife #silly #happy | Lexa Finley

Lexa being Lexa at Lowe’s. #marriedlife #silly #happy | Lexa Finley

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No spoilers but the movie “Seven” is a fantastic thriller starring Brad Pitt(Lexa’s fav) and Morgan Freeman. Recommend if you like crime thrillers. #funny #marriedlife #laughter | Lexa Finley

No spoilers but the movie “Seven” is a fantastic thriller starring Brad Pitt(Lexa’s fav) and Morgan Freeman. Recommend if you like crime thrillers. #funny #marriedlife #laughter | Lexa Finley

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Chalk wall in central area has saved us . . . We are constantly attempting to augment our lives with things that help our brains say focused on the things we want to do. A chalk wall has made keeping new information available and makes for better recall in the future. Can’t recommend it enough. Also the kids love chalking the wall with all kinds of art! #ADHD #lifetips #art #marriedlife #couplegoals #bestfriend #fyp #ADHDRules | Lexa Finley

Chalk wall in central area has saved us . . . We are constantly attempting to augment our lives with things that help our brains say focused on the things we want to do. A chalk wall has made keeping new information available and makes for better recall in the future. Can’t recommend it enough. Also the kids love chalking the wall with all kinds of art! #ADHD #lifetips #art #marriedlife #couplegoals #bestfriend #fyp #ADHDRules | Lexa Finley

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Wear Sunscreen . . Chuck has had many spots on his face frozen or cut off over the past 20 years. It’s not something he should take lightly so the whole family works to keep him on top of his sun protection. Distractions are hard for Chuck. How do you do with distractions and follow-thru? #fyp #marriedlife #wearsunscreen #ADHD | Lexa Finley

Wear Sunscreen . . Chuck has had many spots on his face frozen or cut off over the past 20 years. It’s not something he should take lightly so the whole family works to keep him on top of his sun protection. Distractions are hard for Chuck. How do you do with distractions and follow-thru? #fyp #marriedlife #wearsunscreen #ADHD | Lexa Finley

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Soap reFiller? . . Which type are you? 1 - Immediate refill or 2 - Empty pump it and do without or 3 - just get it from the bulk bottle? At this house we often spend “days” with the bulk bottle on the counter only seconds from a simple 1 minute refill. With object permanence the empty is now part of the landscape as is the bulk bottle. Anybody else???? #fyp #funny #relatable #ADHD | Lexa Finley

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English toffee is a big favorite at this house. It’s getting made for the holidays and it’s one of Lexa’s favorites. What are you favorite Holiday treats? Homemade?#fyp #holiday #marriedlife | Lexa Finley

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House Fire Averted(timers) . . It’s all about the Timers! This simple but very important rule is critical for our household. A place where spicy brains get super distracted and potentially burn down the house. We want to keep it a “Talking Heads” song only. Rules included: When the stove is turned on, a timer is started (no exceptions) The originator is the only one allowed to stop the timer (go get them) #fyp #ADHDRules #timers | Lexa Finley

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Finn loves the HB Song . . Chuck’s dad Jeff would be 105 today. He gave Chuck such a gift by showing him how to love the important people in your life. Chuck’s friend Mary shares a birthday with Jeff and became “part of the family” from an early age. Happy Birthday Mary, we love you. #happybirthday #ADHDRules #fyp #dog | Lexa Finley

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Movement Helps . . Those of us with spicy brains often can’t sit still. Getting permission to move around and finding acceptance for the exactly the person you are now, not the one others “need” you to be. Love yourself, friends and family with forgiveness and acceptance. #fyp #funny #marriedlife #relatable | Lexa Finley

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Violet the troll getting major surgery…Ears! . . . #art #marriedlife #adhd #bigart #recycled #married #troll #funny #artist @cfinleyca | Lexa Finley

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Going YouTube live 9/13-10amPST . . We tried live and has so much fun chatting with folks. Going to schedule a live session for Lexa to finish her Big Hats. Just playing on building, chatting and being silly. Hope you can join us! #fyp #ADHDRules #live https://www.youtube.com/@lexafinley/streams Youtube @lexafinley Lexafinley.com for info | Lexa Finley

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It’s Still incredible . . 46 years, 24 million minutes that we have been best friends, ride or die, forever together, magic makers and it’s truly been incredible! We say our extreme gratitude often and loud to make sure we appreciate these gifts we have been given. Love you all. #marriedlife #halloween #couplegoals | Lexa Finley

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Romantic Arrest story . . Lexa and Chuck met as waitress and waiter. They had no checking accounts, everything was cash and they didn’t have much of that. But from the beginning they have been saving each other in so many ways. Still saving each other to this day. Everyday is romantic and magical when you have someone who is really “in your corner”!!#ADHD #bestfriend #ADHDtips #marriedlife #fyp #ADHDRules | Lexa Finley

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What “supportive” looks like . . In September we were celebrating our 43rd anniversary married and in November will celebrate our 46th year together. In all that time we have found that working as a team and being aware of what your partner needs (physically, emotionally and spiritually) is where so many of the answers we seek are hanging out. Ask questions, dig deeper into those areas they express concern (but observe boundaries every step). When you find out your strengths can augment their we

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What’s your do over? . . We get moving fast. We forget to think, we like to make changes, we get motivated and then it’s game on. Pride is swelling all seems to be going so smoothly and then, “Hey did you make sure we could open the cabinets with the laundry pole up?” Yep they happen, we love to laugh and learn what happened. We(Chuck) gets excited as the project nears completion and planning starts to suffer. Here is a great example. #fyp #ADHD #marriedlife | Lexa Finley

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Hotter than she likes . . Blast from the past. We accidentally bought Flaming Hot Cheetos back in the day and Lexa did not approve. She is still avoiding Cheetos. So proud of her. Love to all. Kindness is really contagious so be careful out there! #cheetos #marriedlife | Lexa Finley

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Going YouTube live 9/13-10amPST . . We tried live and has so much fun chatting with folks. Going to schedule a live session for Lexa to finish her Big Hats. Just playing on building, chatting and being silly. Hope you can join us! #fyp #ADHDRules #live https://www.youtube.com/@lexafinley/streams Youtube @lexafinley Lexafinley.com for info | Lexa Finley

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Glue Gun Hero? . . We love this cordless hot glue gun but it has one flaw, well not their fault but we(ADHDers) aren’t good about turning this device back off. And if you have the big battery (which is lovely and lets you glue for a long long time) it also keeps it on for a long long time! Not sure if this is good for the glue gun. So we are asking for some features like a clear “I’m ON” indicator seen from all sides (We often look and see no light so thinking it’s off). That’s all. Love you guy

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Hair is Art . . Since 2020 when the world shut down for a while, Chuck has been attempting to “Color” Lexa’s curly locks. As time moved along we decided to try the transition approach to Lexa going full gray (she attempted before but just could not see herself). So it’s time now. Thanks again for joining in on this kindness tour with us. We just want to remember that it’s so easy to be kind to others and ourselves. Be good to you. Kindness is soooo contagious. #fyp | Lexa Finley

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Edgar stays on the hand . . Thanks to all who commented and gave notes and just showed love. Edgar will be staying on the hand with a vote of 97-stay to 11-no hand. We also talked about our ZigZag codeword. Couples Rule: 1. Use codewords to name common conflicts. One we use the most is “ZigZag”. When we have a misunderstanding, we have found if we call it out with the codeword, the defensive behaviors are reduced. There is a good chance that you can laugh about it, slow things down and see if yo

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When does 1 = none? . . . When it’s important and the last one you have. Great for art supplies, kitchen pantries, automobile stuff, office supplies anything you use up and want to have on hand. The ADHD rule is BEFORE you open/use the last [1=0 Item] you immediately add that item to the single shopping list(shared for us). When we had kids they had a central whiteboard/calendar to add 1=0 items. #ADHD #lifetips #art #marriedlife #bestfriend #fyp #ADHDRules | Lexa Finley

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Lexa’s fishy dreams come true . . . Lexa is getting the fish on the porch she dreamed of and with a properly sized tank this time they might long healthy lives (fingers crossed). Always open to your thoughts on fish names as this community has some of the more creative people on earth it seems! #aquarium #homedecor #ADHD #marriedlife #fyp #ADHDRules @chuxfin

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The name secret!.. . . Any time you are with another person who knows the name secret (lots of our friends and family know it) and you encounter someone whose name you have forgotten, you can follow these helpful steps to prevent any embarrassment, speaking first as they approach you say, I’d love for you to meet my . If they know the name secret, they then say Hi I’m , what’s your name? It feels so good to say their name without shame (and you are important to us, we have trouble storing things

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