China Insider on Instagram: "In rural Shandong, paying the bill is a love language 😂🍻 This moment shows a very real Chinese tradition - fighting to pay the bill. And no, it’s not about money. It’s about care, respect, and showing you value the people at the table. In many parts of China, especially Shandong, insisting on paying means: “I’m happy you’re here.” “I’ve got you.” “You’re family.” So what looks like chaos is actually generosity in action. No one wants to be the guest who lets others