Here are 5 things you really shouldn’t say to disabled people, and more importantly, why. 1. “What’s wrong with you?” / “What happened to you?” We don’t owe you our medical history. Some of us were born disabled. Others became disabled through something really traumatic. Either way, it’s deeply personal and we have the right to choose if and when we share it. 2.“Oh, you’re not using your aid today, you must be feeling better!” Not necessarily. We might be feeling worse, not better. Our aids coul