Affairs are the ultimate betrayal of trust — but according to relationship therapist Esther Perel, they’re more complicated than you might think. Here’s what drives infidelity and how to move forward from it: http://t.ted.com/jyR0Rqn | TED

Unlock Deeper Connections Transform conflicts into catalysts for growth & intimacy. Master conflict resolution to empower your relationships and yourself. Join the Conflict Course today! | Esther Perel

When it comes to relationships, creating rituals is all about highlighting the specialness of your bond and continuously affirming it—and not just on your anniversary. This clip is from last week's live workshop. For more on this topic, including a full replay of the workshop, visit estherperel.com/blog/letters-from-esther-19-rituals-and-routines. | Esther Perel

Long-term love doesn’t have to mean less desire. This course with Esther Perel helps couples rediscover attraction, play, and erotic connection—no travel, no group sessions. Do it together, at your own pace. | Esther Perel

Am I being gaslit by my partner or am I being oversensitive? The question itself reveals so much. If you are constantly questioning and doubting yourself, then you know something's not right. Hear more about this episode on gaslighting and other episodes on my podcast Where Should We Begin?, which has now returned with a new season under The Vox Media Podcast Network. Tune in on Apple Podcasts and subscribe today. | Esther Perel

Earlier this month, I sat down with Dan Harris on the Ten Percent Happier podcast to talk about the "One Thing That Will Improve the Quality of Your Life." Listen to the full episode through the link below. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/esther-perel-on-the-one-thing-that-will-improve/id1087147821?i=1000639230558 | Esther Perel

Season 2 of Where Should We Begin has come to Apple Podcasts! In Episode 1, we meet a couple who came to me not because of a challenge they faced in their relationship, but rather within their family ecosystem. Step into my office with a new episode every Friday, available on Apple Podcasts. Tap *subscribe* to get notified when a new episode becomes available. https://apple.co/2rAByer #WhereShouldWeBegin | Esther Perel