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John Gottman says the #1 predictor of divorce is CONTEMPT. Not conflict. Not money. Not communication issues or different values. So let’s be clear about what contempt actually is. Contempt is the moment respect leaves the relationship. It’s when irritation turns into superiority. When frustration becomes disgust. When one partner feels above the other. It shows up as: • eye-rolling • sarcasm • mocking • dismissive tone • “You always…” / “You never…” • shutting down instead of staying engaged Go
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