“It wasn’t physical” doesn’t make it okay. We need to talk more honestly about emotional affairs—because too many people are still minimizing them. On this episode of the APSATS podcast, Jill Pool and I are diving into what really constitutes betrayal in a marriage. We unpack why neglect, secrecy, and emotional displacement still violate the vows to love, honor, cherish—and forsake all others. 🎙️ I also share how I approach these situations in couples work, and why emotional affairs can sometim