How many times do we try to repair after a fight before we admit it’s not working? Dr. John Gottman says many couples land on three, and we can even consider a fourth. But if repair keeps getting rejected, we may need to talk about what’s underneath the stuckness: the unresolved hurt, the grudge, the barrier to forgiveness, the reason remorse isn’t being received. Want to assess your repair attempts and learn what helps them land? Read the article here: https://bit.ly/4aAJFNe Note: If you feel u
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